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I'm both exhausted and excited which confuses me a bit. I'm exhausted because I'm so dehydrated and I just can't drink enough UGHHH!! And then I'm really excited because tomorrow is going to be such an awesome day. Early in the morning I'll take the bus to my hometown and spend the whole day and night (sleepover, woho) with my best friend who I haven't seen in way too long. Last time I saw her was in August and I've missed her really much so I'M REALLY EXCITED CAN YOU TELL??? We're also going to see Breaking Dawn Part 2 and drool over Robert Pattinson. He's my former celebrity crush before Harry ruined my life so yeah...fangirling is what's going to happen!

 

Today was quite a good day though.

• My last class was cancelled.
• My plans for the weekend are all set!

Ugh, my computer seems to think it's really funny to mess with me. I've been trying for 3 hours straight to transfer the bonus tracks from Take Me Home Deluxe Edition to my iPhone, and it DOES NOT WORK AND NOW I GIVE UP. I'm tired and I've had way to many feels for Harry these last couple of hours, this is not fun. I'll try again tomorrow morning or something... Now I need my sleep. Less than 5 hours tonight, woho let's rock this................

You guys know how sometimes in horror movies, the person is covering away from the killer or monster or whatever and they put their hands over their ears and squeeze their eyes shut and keep going "you're not real...you're not real..YOU'RE NOT REAL!..."? That's what I do until I feel better when I see pictures like these of Harry. And of course I have to torment myself by having them as my wallpaper.

 

It's starting to literally become frustrating to me how actually PERFECT his face is. Who looks like that?! No one looks like that, Harry!!!

What am I doing at the moment? Everything besides what I really should be doing. And that's pretty much almost always my answer to that question, I've come to realize. Is that a bad thing?

 

To be more specific I'm lying in my bed in a comfy hoodie without pants (sorry for TMI), thinking about a whole lot of stuff including if I should be doing my homework. Which obviously needs to be done, but as always I'm procrastinating.

 

I've been having a lot of thoughts today like always, but now they can't seem to be remembered. I guess they will bombard me when I'm going to sleep tonight, like always. While that subject is up; I slept on the floor tonight. NO I DIDN'T FELL OUT OF MY BED AND ACCIDENTLY LANDED ON THE FLOOR AND THOUGHT 'I'M TOO LAZY TO GET UP AGAIN I'LL JUST SLEEP HERE INSTEAD'. I just didn't like my bed last night. It was seriously SO FREAKING HOT in it so I thought "ugh, I'll just sleep on the floor". I deserve some kind of award for my wierdness, seriously. It was actually comfortable. Except for when I woke up and it felt as if someone had beaten the crap out of me. And it was cold too. I should probably stop writing now.

 

My plans before going to sleep is;

• to get my homework done
• to exercise
• to take a shower
• to clean up in my room BECAUSE IT'S SUCH A MESS ugh
• to try to answer more of you're questions
• to eat dinner
• to look through some blogs

Btw, just so you know, I'M NOT IGNORING YOU MY PRECIOUS LITTLE DARLINGS. I just want to take time and give you good answers and not just throw together something bad, only so you'll get an answer fast. I have a lot to catch up with like you can see, but I will, so just hold on a little longer, I'll get to your question 

I can't believe I'm making a post this unnecessary but whatever. Like a lot of you already know, today has been the first time since I first created my instagram account that I've taken a "day off". It felt like something that had to be done, because I'm seriously always obsessing over it and I always check it, even when I'm in class, which leads to me not focusing enough and blaha, yeah. I've found myself about to open up the app at least 5 times. I've missed it so much, but at the same time I know I needed it. I've actually been revaluing with myself today and I'll probably drift away more and more from anything but fitness, so all of you are probably gonna be really excited now huh? No more (well, maybe 2-3 posts a week, I CAN'T LET IT GO COMPLETELY SORRY) pictures where I just have to fangirl a bit over Harry, probably some text posts, and yeah, the same old stuff, just not as much as it's been lately.

And for the record; I'm probably gonna start blogging a bit more about my personal life here too. I really don't care if you're interested about it though (sorry not sorry) because I need to vent my thoughts and get it all out of my head. I think way too much and I do have another blog, a personal one, but that's in Swedish and as odd as this may sound I always think in English so I think writing in English here will work for me a lot better. I need to stop writing now before we get an entire novel. BYE LOVE YA...well, bye after this:

 

Okay, so lately I've been thinking about making a post about what I'm now about to make a post about (woah that sounded tricky). However, I know a lot of you probably think of me as a person who never make mistakes, never cheats, and just do everything perfect all the time. I just need you to know that this is not the case.

 

My entire life I've had such a hard time hydrating. I literally hate to drink, doesn't matter what it is, and I'm barely never ever thirsty. I can't drink anything and like really enjoy drinking it. I have to push myself every single day to drink and even though I do that, I am still not drinking enough, and it really bothers me since it's so important. I wish I could enjoy it, but I just don't. I hear people who are into fitness and health and all of them say how much they love water. I don't. I don't like water. Well, I like water, but I don't like drinking water, if that even makes sense. I mean, I have no problem whatsoever with the taste, but to drink it, ugh, no. So that's like one of my biggest issues.

Another problem of mine is tadadada; eating to fast. I. Can't. Eat. Slowly. Every time I eat something I eat it sooo fast. I neeeeeed to learn how to eat slow so badly.

 

I sleep way to little. This week I've been getting over 8 hours of sleep every night, so I'm proud over that, but on school nights I always go to bed way too late. I'm not even getting 5 hours of sleep. I've just never been a big fan of going to bed, and my brain tells me not to sleep, because "IF YOU SLEEP ALEXANDRA YOU'LL WASTE HALF OF YOUR LIFE SLEEPING". Thank you brain.

 

So, I'm not perfect people. None of us are. Keep that in mind and be the best version of you. We'll make this work, and we're all here for each other, right? And excuse the awesomeness in those pics *cough*.

With a new month ahead of us we need some goals, right? Yesterday on Instagram I asked all of you to comment your goals for this upcoming month. Before that I also wrote some goals for myself, so you can see those down here too. The goals I will try to seize will be bolded. Here are the results:

 

 

HOLD ON TO WHATEVER YOU NEED TO because I have something I need to tell you. Well not really something shocking or whatever so you can let go. All I wanted to say was that from now on I'll answer every question (that is: questions on my newest photos, like maybe from the latest 24 hours or so, I don't have time to look through every old photo of mine every day) I recieve on my instagram here instead. It's sooo exhausting to answer all of your questions there, mostly because I have to give you good answers and I think it would be a lot easier to do that with the keyboard on my computer, and I get the same questions ooover and ooover which is, yeah, exhausting, so I think it would be easier for you too. I don't know about it, but do you think that would be a good idea? I could create a category on here specified for that, and it would really save me loads of time. Does it sound like a good idea? Because I think it sounds like a good idea.

Looking good today, if I'm allowed to speak my mind. Who's with me?

 

But in all seriousness, I'm actually really happy at the moment. Can you tell that from these pictures? Because I can tell that from these pictures.

 

I'm spending my autumn holiday with the kindest and most amazing people in the world, a.ka. my grandma and grandpa. Just in case you were wondering.

 

I'm already regretting that I'm showing you these picture, I mean, it's too much awesomeness in one post. I hope you can handle it though. Actually, I know you can handle it. Because my grandma and grandpa aren't the only one's who are amazing, you are too my lovelies!

Okay I'm more than soooo sorry right now because I've been unactive here for two days (it is two days, right?) but I've been having personal struggles and all of you who's following me on instagram knows what it's all about. I haven't got enough words in my vocabulary to express my feelings for all of my lovely, amazing, gorgeous, beautiful and overall breathtaking followers. You make me smile even when all I want to do is cry. I don't deserve your love. I really don't but I'm so blessed to have all of you in my life, and I don't even want to think about how I would manage to keep going if I hadn't created that account on instagram that day in July this summer. You're officially my angels, and I love you preciously. DON'T EVER LET ANYONE BRING YOU DOWN, AND IF YOU WANT TO TALK I'M ALWAYS HERE NO MATTER WHAT, OKAY? Just to really clarify that I will now write down all of the places you can personally reach me at without anyone else seeing it.

 

There's probably more but at the moment I can't think of any. Stay strong. Seriously. And remember that me, Alexandra, the kid on the picture who gives you a look as if you're fucking stupid even though you really aren't, loves you. I really really do.

Hellou. Sorry, but today you'll have to survive without any updates. I've seriously had so much homework, and I'm not even done with everything yet. I have to skip my book presentation tomorrow and try to convince my teacher that I'll do it on the next English lesson we have since I've had no time to finish reading it. I also have English words and a big test tomorrow in geography. I'm not quite sure if this will end well. However, today we didn't have a normal school day, because we've been out all day in the rain having orientation. This day resulted in me looking like a wet cat, freezing my ass off and just to top it off my legs were totally covered in mud. My feet hurts and my shoes are nearly destroyed. Wehu. 

First of all I have to start up by saying that I'm so sorry for not updating for four days. Like literally, I'm so sorry. I have so much going on in school at the moment and that actually has to be my priority. Tomorrow I have a short day in school so I'll try to make some posts who will post themselves during the rest of this week. Hope you're all feeling amazing and that you still take care of yourselves. You have to promise me that.

 

Sorry for not posting the last couple of days! Updates will come tomorrow, when I'm home at my dad (who I haven't lived with for over a month now!) and everything is in order. Meanwhile; stay strong and never give up!

 

   My name is Alexandra.

   I'm sixteen years old. 

   I live in Sweden. 

   I am an INFJ personality type - meaning Introverted Intuitive Feeling Judging. I take both pleasure and terror in being this personality type. Pleasure in that it's the rarest type and that makes me feel kind of special, but also terror because it means not that many people think like I do and that scares me sometimes. 

 

   By being introverted it means that I:

• Am reserved
• Listen carefully
• Prefer solitary activities
• Am more comfortable when alone than when around other people
• Get exhausted by social interaction 
• Have quiet energy
• Listen more than talk
• Think quietly inside my head
• Think, then act
• Feel comfortable being alone
• Prefer to work "behind-the-scenes"
• Have good powers of concentration
• Prefer to focus on one thing at a time
• Am self-contained

   By being intuitive it means that I:

• Am introspective
• Rely on my imagination
• Become absorbed in ideas
• Focus on what might happen
• Focus on the big picutre & possibilities
• Admire creative ideas
• Notice anything new or different
• Am inventive - I see "what could be"
• Think about future implications
• Trust my gut instinct
• Prefer to learn new skills
• Like to figure things out for myself
• Work in bursts of energy

   I'm massively atychiphobic, paranoid and generally scared of what people think of me.

   I'm a hopeless romantic.

   My life goal is to have visited every single country on our earth.

   I love rain and thunder and especially the smell of rain in the summers.

   I'm really afraid of what type of mother I will turn out to be. Ever since I turned ten or so I've been planning on how I will teach them everything they need to know and I am beyond scared that they won't have an excellent mind. Intelligence has always been important to me and I want my future children to be clever.

   I'm a very dedicated individual. If you have me in your life, chances are I'll give anything and do anything within my power for you.

 

   I'm a highly passionate individual, in every aspect there is. If I love something, I love it deeply.

   I have a very poor relationship with my body. In the fact that I pretty much hate it. I'm working very hard to change this.

   I have a poor relationship with my own personality and brain. I always want to be better than I am because I don't think I'm smart enough.

   I'm always working towards my future, always thinking about what will help me.

   I swear a lot and that has to stop.

   My sense of humour is awful. It's normally dry, sarcastic and mean or very, very loony.

   I enjoy sketching and painting. I'm not great and can only do it when I know exactly how I want it to turn out to be.

   I enjoy reading.

   My music taste is very diverse, everything from One Direction to the Weeknd.

   I love cooking and I consider it as a form of therapy for me. If I am feeling like shit you'll normally find me in the kitchen.

 

   Even though I love eating I prefer making it.

   I love seafood and shellfish.

   I generally like a more adult style of clothing and even though I never wear it I'm secretly a sucker for the vintage style.

   I love buying things for my future home. I don't know anyone my age who spends her money on kitchen equipment and things I'd one day like to have around my house. I guess you could say I'm preparing for my future life.

   My favorite flowers are peonies.

   My favorite color is pink but this varies a lot from time to time and I'll probably change my mind soon.

   I love fruit and vegetables with a few exceptions such as celery and physalis.

   I'm introverted but when I get nervous I'm a really bubbly individual who practically only pladders on about insignificant things. I keep pretty much everything to myself though.

   I generally don't accept compliments well as I think people are lying to me, or that they're playing some elaborate joke on me to destroy my self-esteem and for this reason I don't trust easily.

   If I want something really really bad I'll never ever ever settle for the second best. It just has to be that particular one.

 

   I often feel like I take things to seriously no matter what context we're talking about.

   I feel like I’m always either not enough or too much for every person I know.

   Sometimes I feel too nice. I always try to understand people and help them but I feel like no one takes the time to understand me. I’ve gotten in trouble so many times that I feel like I'm going insane. One part of me wants to say “no” sometimes, but the other half always says “yes” and I’m tearing myself apart.

   I’m not afraid of death. I do fear leaving the people I love though.

   I'm able to perceive much, learn easily, make a lot of connections, think very in depth, and understand things easily.

   I always love too little or too much.

   I have trouble falling asleep some nights because I'm wracking my own brain with questions about the universe and time and humanity and everything’s meanings. I hate to think they’re unanswerable questions, but I also hate to think that maybe there’s no deeper meaning.

   I value myself only as others value me. It has brought me confidence, over-confidence, sadness, and self-hate. I realize this is a major flaw.

   I was told from an early age that I was above average. I'm under constant pressure from the expectations of teachers and people who don’t understand that my being “smart” doesn’t necessarily mean I’m capable of getting straight As.

   I worry that I won’t do anything “productive” with my life.

 

   I care so deeply for so many of the people in my life, but they have no way to know. I shut them out and I don’t know how to let anybody in.

   I am the epitome of “lonely in a group of people.”

   The wanderlust in my heart just wants to pull me around the world and back until I find a town, city, or country that is more than the place in which I live. I want to find a home.

   Sometimes it’s just impossible for me to fall asleep. I’ll feel physically exhausted, but mentally my brain just keeps on running thinking about how to solve problems or what’s troubling loved ones. It’s like the hard drive just never shuts down on its own, and while many other people would combust at having to think about two or three times simultaneously, this just happens on it’s own.

   I have to write. I write for freedom. I write to free the person living deep down inside me. She is known by few, especially me.

   I’ve grown up disliking myself/thinking I’m not good enough because I’m not as outspoken or as charismatic as personable extraverts are. They’re so good at networking and immediately connecting with others. However, I’m starting to realize the strength in my reservedness when I’m confident and not self-deprecating - I bond more deeply with the passionate, creative, and enthusiastic types. I save time by not creating superficial bonds with the more shallow characters.

   I love people-watching. I see the most beautiful people and then I’ll see them around and just wish I can skip all the small talk and get a chance at really knowing. Some people just have darling souls and don’t even realize it. So many people are so gorgeous and if only someone could tell them.

   I start loving everyone who shows me the least bit of attention. This is something I'm not very proud of.

   I feel as if it’s my fault when anything bad happens to people I love while I’m not around.

   I really love silence cause thats the part where you find the important things to say instead of talking about things that doesn't even matter like small talk, it makes my head hurt.

 

   I’ve always felt about 15 years too old for my body. I’m always the grownup in the room, looking out for my friends and giving them pep talks.

   I push away anyone who cares about me. I pick out the little flaws and judge people then decide not to associate myself with them because of it. I am afraid of love. I am afraid to be loved, even though deep down inside I want it.

   When I read a story, it’s really easy for me to feel how they do, and often times I cry for them, laugh for them, or all around understand them.

   I have a bad habit of blowing money when I’m feeling really down and then I regret it every time. 

   I’m far happier having cut almost everyone out of my life, and just focusing on myself. I no longer have to spend all the energy I once did, on caring what other people think about me. I’m better off this way, with only a few people who really care. I’ve got gifts that I need to learn how to use, instead of trying to appeal to others and getting lost in the crowds.

   I’m not shy. I’m reserved. There is a big difference.

   I absolutely hate it when I realize I have a crush on someone. I don’t know it immediately, but after I realize it, I can’t act normal around them. I act like I don’t want anything to do with them even though my thoughts are infested with the person.

   I have this thing where I will love and fight for a person who I perceive as weak or downtrodden but as soon as that person becomes okay I leave them. Whenever I see someone who seems to have it all together or is viewed as something special I tend to dislike them. It’s not jealously, but something just rubs me the wrong way.

   I’m flattered that people see a genuine sense of responsibility in me.

   I crave attention, but at the same time I dislike being in the spotlight.

 

   I hate keeping eye contact with people I don’t know very well or don’t like.

   I love to draw, but it’s my hobby: it gets tiring after a while being told when you have to draw/paint something or what you have to do. I like to write, but that’s a personal hobby too.

   I have simple little OCD perks in my daily life. It was up until recently that I found out more people do, but it's still tough. I haven't told anyone about that.

   I always find myself more attracted to people older than me; both platonically and romantically.

   A wish for adventure is always filling my head, I’m the most incautios of all my friends and I’m always ready to walk in unknown streets and when I arrive to a new place I love to explore it’s surroundings.

   I think a lot. Have GREAT ideas. The only problem is putting all that “information” into real-world lingo. I’m such a perfectionist, it just always seems… incomplete and untangible when I try to transfer my ideas.

   I'm nonchalant toward the majority of people in my life, but then I meet someone and I feel like I have to know everything about them. Some would call this a simple crush, but I believe it’s different. It isn’t sexual in nature, it’s more mental or emotional. I also then feel awkward around them because I don’t want to show them how genuinely interested I am in them because I don’t want to scare them.

   Guys find me interesting until they get to know me better. Then they run like hell as soon as I open up. It really hurts. Lesson learned? Don't open up.

   To me sex is something of great importance and spiritual connection and not something casual to just throw around.

   When someone has treated me poorly, broken my trust, and hurt me in a really deep way, I find that cutting them out of my life brings me such great satisfaction. I don’t need you. In fact, I’m better without you and I wish you could see how much happier I am.

 

   I have this thing where I need to give everything love. Feelings everywhere. I want to smother everything with affection.

   I find that whenever I try to explain something strange that I think about often, all I get in return is a confused/concerned-for-your-mental-health kind of look in return. It’s hard not being able to explain those really weird thoughts in my head.

   I'm easily affected by the emotions of the people around me, to the point where sometimes, if someone suddenly becomes very angry, I have to leave the room. I really wish people didn’t think this was me being unsociable.

 

My primary mode of living is focused internally, where I take things in primarily via intuition. My secondary mode is external, where I deal with things according to how I feel about them, or how they fit with my personal value system.

I tend to be quiet and reserved. I generally prefer interacting with a few close friends rather than a wide circle of acquaintances, and I expend energy in social situations. I tend to be more abstract than concrete. I focus on future possibilities rather than immediate realities. I tend to plan my activities and make decisions early. I derive a sense of control through predictability. I regard problems as opportunities to design and implement creative solutions.

I'm sometimes mistaken for being an extrovert, as I tend to possess multiple personalities due to my complex inner life; however, I'm a true introvert. I'm a private individual who prefer to exercise my influence behind the scenes. Though I'm very independent, I'm intensely interested in the well-being of others. I prefer one-on-one relationships to large groups. I'm adept at understanding complicated issues and driven to resolve differences in a cooperative and creative manner.

I have a rich, vivid inner life that I'm reluctant to share with those around me. Nevertheless, I'm congenial in my interactions and perceptive of the emotions of others. I'm generally well-liked by my peers. However, I'm guarded in expressing my own feelings, especially to new people and tend to establish close relationships slowly. I tend to be easily hurt, though I may not act like it. I may "silently withdraw as a way of setting limits" rather than expressing my wounded feelings - a behavior that may leave others confused and upset.

I tend to a be a sensitive, quiet leader with a great depth of personality. I'm intricately, deeply woven, mysterious, highly complex, and often puzzling, even to myself. I have an orderly view towards the world, but am internally arranged in a complex way that only I can understand.

I'm gentle, caring, complex and an highly intuitive individual. I'm artistic and creative, and I believe that I live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. 

I place great importance on having things orderly and systematic in my outer world. I put a lot of energy into identifying the best system for getting things done, and constantly define and re-define the priorities in my life. On the other hand, I operate within myself on an intuitive basis which is entirely spontaneous. I know things intuitively, without being able to pinpoint why, and without detailed knowledge of the subject at hand. I'm usually right, and I usually know it. Consequently, I put a tremendous amount of faith into my instincts and intuitions. This is something of a conflict between my inner and outer world, and may result in me not being as organized as others tend to be. You may see some signs of disarray in an otherwise orderly tendency, such as a consistently messy desk.

I have an uncanny insight into people and situations. I get "feelings" about things and intuitively understand them. As an extreme example, I experience a sense of psychic nature, such as getting strong feelings about there being a problem with a loved one, and discover later that they've hurt themselves. This is the sort of thing that other people may scorn and scoff at, and me myself do not really understand my intuition at a level which can be verbalized. Consequently, I'm protective of my inner self, sharing only what I choose to share when I choose to share it. I'm a deep, complex individual, who's quite private and typically difficult to understand. I hold back parts of myself, and can be secretive.

But I'm as genuinely warm as I'm complex. I hold a special place in the heart of people who I'm close to, who are able to see my special gifts and depth of caring. I'm concerned for people's feelings, and try to be gentle to avoid hurting anyone. I'm very sensitive to conflict, and cannot tolerate it very well. Situations which are charged with conflict may drive my normally peaceful self into a state of agitation or charged anger. I may tend to internalize conflict into my body, and experience health problems when under a lot of stress.

Because I have such strong intuitive capabilities, I trust my own instincts above all else. This may result in stubborness and a tendency to ignore other people's opinions. I believe that I'm right. On the other hand, I'm a perfectionist who doubts that I'm living up to my full potential. I'm rarely at complete peace with myself - there's always something else I should be doing to improve myself and the world around me. I believe in constant growth, and don't often take time to revel in my accomplishments. I have strong value systems, and need to live my life in accordance with what I feel is right. In some ways I'm gentle and easy going. Conversely, I have very high expectations of myself, and frequently of my family. I don't believe in compromising my ideals.

I'm a natural nurturer; patient, devoted and protective. I think I'll turn out to be a loving parent with a strong bond to my children. I'll have high expectations of my children, and I'll push them to be the best that they can be. I'll probably be hard-nosed and stubborn at times. But generally, I will be devoted and sincere, and will care for them deeply.

In the workplace, I usually show up in areas where I can be creative and somewhat independent. I have a natural affinity for art, and I'll probably excel in the sciences, where I can make use of my intuition. I'm not good at dealing with minutia or very detailed tasks. I will either avoid such things, or else go to the other extreme and become enveloped in the details to the extent that I can no longer see the big picture. When I've gone the route of becoming meticulous about details I may be highly critical of other individuals who are not.

Although I'm likely to put friends behind my family in terms of importance, I do value my friendships. As an idealist who have strong value systems, I seek authenticity and depth in my close relationships, and especially value people who can see and appreciate me for who I am and what I stand for.

I have friends with a lot of different personality types. I'm an extremely intuitive individual, who will have no patience for anyone I feel is dishonest or corrupt. I'll have no interest in being around these kinds of people.

As a friend I'm likely to be very insightful, warm and caring. It will not be easy to get to know me well as I hide my true thoughts deep within my mind – however, if my friends are determined enough to work on the friendship, its strength and depth will be remarkable. I'm very enigmatic and difficult to decipher yet I'm able to see through other people’s masks very easily. Authenticity and sincerity are extremely important if you want to become friends with me.

I'm not really interested in friendships which mostly revolve around practical, daily matters or physical activities. I'm a quiet yet very determined idealist, brimming with desire to make the world a better place. Therefore, I'm likely to seek friends who are willing to let a bit of idealism into my life and engage in deep, meaningful discussions about things that go beyond the daily routines.

I also tend to be relatively perfectionistic, which can be both a very positive and a very negative trait when it comes to relationships. On one hand, I will seek to grow and develop together with my close friends, seeking out life-enriching experiences. On the other hand, this tendency to always reach for the ideal may exhaust people with different personalities than mine, as they may not have the same stamina and determination that I possess. Consequently, I may keep moving from one friend to another, hoping that the next one will be more similar to me than the last.

I constantly have to remind myself that I have an extremely rare personality type and to not get frustrated if my friends don't share 100% of my principles or goals. I seek friends that I can trust, and who are both willing and able to understand my passions and ideas. Not many people can cope with the depth and richness of my imagination, and even fewer can support me in the way that I need. I tend to be very loyal and supportive as a friend, but I need to learn how to meet potential new friends halfway.

As I'm generally eloquent and persuasive, I tend to be quite popular at times and also influential. Me myself am often quite bemused by this, as I'm a very private individual who don't really need nor enjoy attention. I only have a few true friends, but I hope those friends value my companionship very highly.

I'm valued by my close friends for my warmth and consideration, my new and interesting ways of looking at things, and for my ability to inspire and motivate others to be the best that they can be.

I possess the ability to see behind the obvious, to clearly understand the idea behind the process. I'm extraordinarily insightful and able to sense other people’s thoughts, desires and emotions very easily.

I can act wisely and spontaneously even in the face of unforeseen events. It is hard to manipulate me as I evaluate the motives of other people very carefully. It is very rare that I'm tricked or talked into something I don't want. Nevertheless, I'm friendly and full of compassion, even though I can be very picky when it comes to choosing friends.

My life is not necessarily easy, but I'm capable of great depth of feeling and personal achievement.

 

STRENGTHS: