pls never just ask me to list what kind of music i like or what books i like

like i love talking about music and about literature in a give and take conversation or like ‘oh have you heard so-or-so i just got into them they’re damn good’ but i cANNOT deal with just the open-ended question of ‘so what sort of music do you listen to?’ like i literally start sweating and forget every single song/artist ever st op